IMPROVE YOUR PERSONALITY

Personality is nothing but a person’s ability to show his expressions in the form of gestures to the other people around him. This quantifies his quality and his behavior adding to his face value. It makes an impact on the minds of other people so well, that his physical appearance and mental ability can be readily magnified. It is the power of attraction and is the art of keeping the audience on the seats. It is not born but made.
Your personality and impact you make on others depend on some major factors. The important ones are the appearance and bearing. This in turn is dependent on your dress, grooming and the cheerful facial expressions you are able to present with the genuine, warm, hearty and pleasant smile. Wishing and greeting are the major factor of any individual’s personality. You may wish the other person a happy good morning, good day or good evening. That is followed by a friendly hugging or manly handshakes. If you are wishing a person of opposite sex you might not shake hands instead in a traditional way join hands and wish with an exquisite way as “Namaskar or Namaste”.If they are old or elderly person then you can touch their feet or seek blessings from them by bowing head to them. The most innovative idea or way of greeting is from the Chinese or Japanese people, who have a very charming habit of bowing from their hips.
Verbal greeting stands to be the other face of the physical greetings. They should go hand in hand simultaneously. The first or initial impression made by the appearance is confirmed or contradicted by our voice and words. Words are the media from which the thoughts and feelings of mind conveyed to others. They should be the built-in tool for effective contact, communication and good rapport to the others. People always like to hear the wedding bells and if they help it they never want to hear the funeral chimes. A waiting and the whining voice has an instant depressing effect on others. Using the right tone and voice is an art by itself and it creates the best impression on the minds of the listeners. The celebrities on stage or in movies make full use of their voice to impress the audience by conveying their emotions and feelings.
The genuine pleasure of real liking, friendliness and interest can be relayed by the more tone of your voice. In fact your voice is the mirror of your personality. Confidence, determination, resoluteness, courage, faith, understanding, sympathy, haste and fear and personality traits of an individual can be gauged from tone of ones voice and manner of his expression.
Your voice and words will go waste if they are not channeled to provide appreciation. You musty be well mannered, considerate and thoughtful to show appreciation automatically as a matter of habit. This habit of being thoughtful and considerate towards others will change you into nicer, pleasanter and more charming personality.